Listen to Oprah’s Super Soul Conversation with comedian, musician and co-author of He's Just Not That Into You, Greg Behrendt and his wife Amiira Ruotola. They explain why they believe so many women lower their standards when it comes to dating. Together, they share the biggest mistake women make in dating, what single men are really thinking and why it is important not to lower your personal standards. They also discuss their book It’s Just A F***ing Date.